Shamma Parveen, Coordinator, Mahila Panchayat Programme, says, “I am married into a conservative Muslim family. Initially they found it hard to accept that I was well educated and knew my mind. During the period of Ramadaan, I used to be made to maintain my roza (fast) alone -- away from the rest of the family. But all this has changed now as I consciously opened up channels of communication and made them aware that I was as much part of the family as they were. They have, over the years, learnt to accept me and my views. I now work long hours as well. The family accepts this as well and my mother-in-law is proud of my achievements as is my husband. If all this has been possible for me, I am convinced it is for others as well. They must persist in trying and never losing hope.”