Violence is an inescapable reality in women's lives, as the social customs and attitudes that support violence against them are entrenched and institutionalized at all levels, in the home, family, community, society, and the State. Breaking the silence on this violence is not easy, or is it even a real option for most women; to do so would threaten their lives.

The incidence of violence against women is growing notwithstanding the immense efforts of women's groups and other local, national and international organizations over the past three decades.

Worldwide, one in three women will face violence simply because they are female.

The situation of women in South Asia is worse. In Sri Lanka, it is estimated that around 60% of the women, are subject to domestic violence. Even with such high figures domestic violence is still seen as normal and a private matter. This normalization of domestic violence reinforces societal acceptance. We need to recognise domestic violence, as a violation of human rights, and this should no longer be tolerated.

The pervasive culture of domestic violence has eroded women's fundamental rights to life, security, bodily integrity, work, and safety at home.

We need to take stock of this growing concern and reassess our attitudes and practices that support and condone violence against another individual. This is the responsibility of every human being, including you and me.

We need to work together to increase awareness of the problems of women, thereby creating an enabling environment that would promote violence free homes for all.